You have so many opinions. And you suffer so much from them. Why not let them go?” Ajahn Chah We have been talking about mindfulness — what it means, why it is important, and how to achieve it. One of the ways to achieve it is to cultivate a “beginner’s mind”, also known as the […]
Year: 2019
Mindfulness Matters – Patience (Part 3 in the Series)
Patience is not passive waiting. Patience is active acceptance of the process required to attain your goals and dreams.” ~ Ray Davis We need to have patience to learn something new. Learning how to be mindful is no different. Our minds want to think — constantly! They are designed to do that. We […]
Mindfulness Matters – Being Non-Judgmental (Part 2 in the Series)
Whether we do it consciously or unconsciously, we all make judgments of ourselves and others. But, if we do so often, it can become a habit, and there are ways in which we can all benefit by being less judgmental. Judgments are instilled in us practically from the day we are born. It is part […]
Mindfulness Matters – An Introduction (Part 1 in the Series)
What is on your mind right now? Are you thinking about something that happened yesterday or last week? Are you rehearsing for an important conversation you will have tomorrow? I took a course titled “Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction” (MBSR) twice – in 2007 and again in 2010. The Program was delivered over 8 weeks at […]
Suffering = Pain X Resistance
Einstein’s equation is simple. The understanding and application of it is what is complex. And simple is not the same as “easy”. If it were easy, there would be no suffering in the world, right? I am writing this article to bring some clarity to this conundrum. The Buddha taught that life is suffering, but […]
Struggling With Depression
There are many explanations for WHY people get depressed. Those explanations can be helpful from a rational perspective, but depression isn’t rational, is it? In April 2017, I wrote an article titled, “Dealing With Depression”, and asserted the statement above. In that article, I listed some ways to deal with depression, but I didn’t tell […]